Hard To Say “IM SORRY”

I had never been a mornin’ person & wasn’t too happy about getting’ up as early as 6 am in th mornin’ everyday. Arrrgghhhh, am so sick of it! But, by hook or by crook, I have to, for th sake of internship! Sabar aja lah kan. Lol! Another 4 weeks to go, after tht, everythin’ will get bck to normal. Hee! Btw, when I woke up this mornin’, I get immediately to ponder why it is so hard for us to say sorry. It happened! I’ve been in ths situation once (or maybe more!). No doubt, it’s so frikin’ hard to utter th words IM SORRY, especially when we’re obviously wrong.

Am sure yall gonna agree with me if I says tht just th idea of havin’ to apologise for somethin’ we’ve done fills us with dread. Don’t yall? Moreover, it gets harder when we really have done somethin’ grievously wrong, like betrayin’ a friend’s confidence or sayin’ somethin’ hurtful in a CARELESS MOMENT. Hell, such a big mistake babes! For real, I was wonderin’ why we find it so hard to utter th 2 words “IM SORRY”, is really b’cus of our pride. For me, apologizin’ & admittin’ to our mistakes take responsibility, maturity, & humility on our part. All of which are not tht easy no matter whether u’re 17 or 60! Still, however hard it is, sayin’ sorry is vital in maintainin’ our relationship with a friend, parent or siblings, & not doin’ so when thr’s a need to can only make things worse. Undeniably, it’s like any other skill & habit, we’ve got to learn how to really say sorry & mean it. After all, thr’s nothin’ to lose if a relationship could be on th mean from it!

Whoa, I have to stop now. Still have other things to do. Better get on with it though. Lols! :p

ACCEPTED BY OTHERS?

Ever been in a situation whr u've been so badly wanna be accepted by others? come on lahh, im pretty sure we've all been thr. Besides, it's an almost unexplainable social behavior, tht we're willin' to go out of our way to make sure it happens. thr're some ppl willin' to talk up their jobs, partners & social lives, & bend th truth to ensure they were viewed +vely by others. They said it's not exactly lyin', just a case of tryin' too hard to fit in. Is it? Well, for me, it's very common for ppl to act in ways they think will make 'em more likeable, but, thr must be a limit of it. cus, deviatin' too far from ur true personality can threaten u, urself! No doubt, everyone wants to be liked, & both men & women change th way they act to seek approval. Especially from th opposite sex. But, be aware of how to adapt ur personality to suit different environment. If u make fittin' in ur highest priority not only do u run a risk of being exposed as a FAKE, u may also find urself actin' in ways tht compromise ur values!